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November 2017

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Dressember: The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

Thanks to all of you who stopped by my table at Imagine Conference last weekend!

Dressember at Imagine Conference

I wore a dress to Imagine Conference, and I didn’t die!

Remember how on Friday night Eugene Cho reminded us that even as Christians, we tend to be more in love with the idea of changing the world than actually changing the world? Yeah; that one cut me deep.

Well, what if I told you there was an opportunity to go beyond just being upset about human trafficking? What if there was an opportunity to learn not only about this unimaginable evil that has stolen the lives of millions of victims around the world and in our own backyard, but also about the triumphant stories of rescue and restoration made possible by anti-trafficking organizations? What if there was an opportunity to not only share what you learn with your people so they’re aware but also to raise money on behalf of these organizations so they can continue their vital work and move ever closer to abolishing modern-day slavery during our lifetimes?

AND what if I told you you can do all of these things just by putting on a dress? (Men, don’t stop reading.)

The Problem: Slavery Still Exists

There are more people in slavery today than at any other time in human history. 

Here are the facts:

The U.S. State Department last put the number of victims worldwide at an estimated 27 million, but according to its most recent report, it’s likely in the tens of millions.

Human trafficking is the fastest-growing criminal industry in the world, generating more than $150 billion USD every year, according to the International Labour Organization.

In 2016, an estimated 1 out of 6 endangered runaways reported to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children were likely child sex trafficking victims. Of those, 86% were in the care of social services or foster care when they ran away. According to UNICEF, 2 million children are being subjected to prostitution in the global commercial sex trade.

While there is no official estimate of the total number of human trafficking victims in the United States, it probably reaches into the hundreds of thousands.So far in 2017, there have been 117 reported cases of human trafficking in Pennsylvania.

And here’s the kicker: Only 1 percent of human trafficking victims are ever rescued.

These numbers are huge and hard to swallow. They’re so big, the faces behind them get lost, and we forget they’re people. Women. Children. Created with a destiny and a purpose, with inherent dignity, with great value and worth. We turn away. Because what can we possibly do to change any of this?

The Solution: Put on a Dress, Take a Stand, Change the World

Blythe Hill was a fashion blogger before there was an Instagram. She was also a bored college student in 2009 who came up with a personal style challenge to wear a dress every day in December, calling it “Dressember.” She completed it herself and thought that’s where it would end. Until the following year when her friends wanted to join her, then their friends, and their friends’ friends. Four years in, Hill had the idea of making Dressember into something bigger.

It was around 2005 when I started hearing about the issue of human trafficking. I began learning that slavery exists in every city in the world, around every major sporting event, at brickyards, brothels, truck stops and massage parlors. It’s estimated that there are currently over 30 million people trapped in slavery—more than any other point in history.

When I started hearing about trafficking, I felt an urgency to do something, and so naturally, I looked at my skillset for a way to engage. The problem was my interests and talents didn’t seem to line up with making a difference. I’m not a social worker, I’m not a lawyer, I’m not a psychologist. I’m not a cop. I’m someone who’s interested in fashion, trend analysis, wordplay, and blogging. My interests felt shallow in the grand scheme of things. I remember feeling powerless, and thinking, “There’s nothing I can do.”

Sounds familiar, doesn’t it (see above)? But Hill stepped back, realized she’d created a “movement” without even meaning to around the style challenge of wearing a dress every day in December, and decided to align her interest in fashion with her desire to do something.

In 2013, Dressember took on new meaning, opposing the worldwide trafficking and exploitation of women by aligning with IJM, a human rights organization that works to rescue victims of slavery, sexual exploitation, and other forms of violent oppression. In 2015, Dressember added a second grant partner: A21, which exists to abolish modern-day slavery in the 21st century.

In just the past four years, Dressember advocates have raised almost $3 million to support the work of IJM and A21! Thanks to all of your support the past two years I’ve participated as an advocate (I blogged about it here and here), I’ve been able to raise nearly $2,500!

When you participate in Dressember, you become an advocate for freedom and dignity as well as a voice for the millions of voiceless women, children, and men around the world who are enslaved. How?

Become an Advocate

Commit to wearing a dress (or tie if you’re a guy; see I told you men not to stop reading!) every day in December and telling people about it. Link arms with fellow advocates to raise money and awareness for the fight against global human trafficking. These are the steps.

1. Join Dressember Pittsburgh.

Visit bit.ly/dressember2017 and click on “Join Team.” Don’t forget to select Dressember Pittsburgh as the team you want to join once you set up your personal page.

2. Set your fundraising goal.

You could start off at $50 or $100, but why go small? My first year, and I set a goal of $500. I raised $750! This year I’m going for $3,000.

3. Choose your personal url.

This is where you direct your supporters so choose something they’ll recognize, like your name: support.dressemberfoundation.org/fundraiser/yourname

4. Change the world.

Spread the word, especially on social media, and encourage your friends and family to get involved by supporting your campaign. Every time you post, use #dressember, #dressemberpgh, and #itsbiggerthanadress, and feel free to check out my Instagram feed from last December for inspiration. You certainly don’t have to post every day; it was my way of staying on track, and my tiny group of fans really liked following along.

Feel free to share links to this blog post as well as the team page to encourage your friends to join us!

Our Dressember Pittsburgh team fundraising goal is $6,300, which is the approximate cost of one rescue operation.

5. Win prizes!

The first three people to join Dressember Pittsburgh and raise $50 on their page will receive an official Dressember pin from me! Plus Dressember does giveaways and offers incredible incentives to the top fundraising individuals and teams!

Donate

Not into wearing dresses (seriously you don’t need to own a lot of them—I’m planning to rotate two to three of them all month with different accessories)? Please consider making a donation.

Give to my campaign! My goal this year is $3,000. And don’t forget to follow along with me on social media during the month of December. I’ll post every day on Instagram and occasionally on Facebook.

That’s it! I can’t wait to do this with you. Let me know in the comments if you’re participating this year or plan to next Dressember, and of course please let me know if you have any questions!

xoxo

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Imagine Spotlight: Dressember

Are you coming to Imagine Conference? Have you registered yet? The deadline is TODAY.

The Story: It’s Bigger Than a Dress

Dressember is a collaborative movement leveraging fashion and creativity to promote the inherent dignity of all people. Since 2013, Dressember has grown into an international movement to save lives.
In just the past four years, thousands of women have raised more than $3 million to end human trafficking—I participated for the first time two years ago and since then I’ve raised nearly $2,500!—just by wearing dresses.

Started by Blythe Hill in 2009, Dressember began as a quirky style challenge with a clever name that spread like wildfire. In 2013, it took on new meaning, opposing the worldwide trafficking and exploitation of women by aligning with International Justice Mission, a human rights organization that works to rescue victims of slavery, sexual exploitation, and other forms of violent oppression. In 2015, Dressember added a second grant partner: A21, which exists to abolish modern-day slavery in the 21st century.

When you participate in Dressember, you become an advocate for freedom and dignity as well as a voice for the millions of voiceless women, children, and men around the world who are enslaved. How?

Become an Advocate

Commit to wearing a dress (or tie if you’re a guy!) every day in December and telling people about it. Link arms with fellow advocates to raise money and awareness for the fight against global human trafficking.

Join our team: Dressember Pittsburgh. Our goal is to raise $6,300—the cost of one rescue mission. Simply visit bit.ly/dressember2017, click on Join Team, set up your personal fundraising page, then join Dressember Pittsburgh!

Donate

Not into wearing dresses (seriously you don’t need to own a lot of them—I’m planning to rotate two to three of them all month with different accessories)? Make a donation.

Give to my campaign! My goal this year is $3,000. And don’t forget to follow along on social media during the month of December.

Want to learn more about Dressember? Come to Imagine Conference this Friday and Saturday!

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Imagine Spotlight: A21

Are you coming to Imagine Conference? Have you registered yet? The deadline is TODAY.

The Story: We Can All Do Something

In 2007, Christine Caine—today an internationally known teacher, evangelist, activist, author, and speaker—was walking through the airport in Thessaloniki, Greece, when she noticed that littering the walls were handmade posters showing the faces of girls and women who had disappeared. She wondered how there could be so many people missing at the same time, until someone told her they were all victims of human trafficking.

Caine was incredulous. “I thought ‘Human trafficking? That doesn’t happen, that’s ridiculous.’ Then I went online and did some research, and I was stunned.” [“Abolishing Sex Slavery by Helping One Girl at a Time”]

Or as she would later put it: “My. World. Was. Rocked. Forever. … Life as I knew it before seeing the missing posters was over.” [“A Dream Come True”]

A year later in 2008, she and her husband, Nick, founded The A21 Campaign, an anti-human trafficking organization dedicated to abolishing injustice in the 21st century. A21’s comprehensive approach includes raising awareness, preventing future trafficking, taking legal action, and providing rehabilitation services to survivors.

With a stated mission to abolish slavery everywhere forever, A21 has 12 offices in 11 countries—all focused on aspects of its three-pronged solution: Reach, Rescue, Restore.

 

 

REACH THE VULNERABLE AND DISRUPT THE DEMAND.
RESCUE VICTIMS AND SEEK JUSTICE AGAINST THEIR CAPTORS.
RESTORE SURVIVORS AND EQUIP THEM TO LIVE INDEPENDENTLY.

Reach: A21 prevents slavery from ever happening by engaging people through events like the Walk for Freedom, student presentations, and education programs.

Rescue: A21 works closely with law enforcement on the ground to support raids, identify victims through our resource lines, assist in the prosecution of traffickers, represent survivors in court proceedings, and collaborate with governments and other NGOs to eradicate slavery at every level.

Restore: A21 works face-to-face with every person in their care, providing them with access to housing, medical treatment, counseling, education, employment, and repatriation based on their individual needs.

Take Action: Introducing A-Teams

A21 believes in involving everyday people, called New Abolitionists, to help to abolish slavery everywhere, forever.

“Often, I think, because we think, ‘I can’t do it all,’ we end up being paralyzed. So we do nothing,” says Caine. “But if we understand we can’t do everything but we all must do something, and we all find the one thing that we can do, then we’ll find that together we will all make such a huge difference and we’ll be able to put a stop to this.”

Now there’s a way for all of us to do something. Introducing A-Teams. An extension of A21, A-Teams are made up of abolitionists—ordinary people like you and me:

A-Teams is you. It is us. We are a global community of abolitionists determined to leave our mark on history. From coffee shops to campuses, places of work to places of worship, A-Teams are wherever you are; bringing their time, talent, and influence to create real change. A-Teams are an extension of A21 and the fuel behind the mission–going to unreached places with the message of freedom. We believe that with grit, tenacity, and dedication, we can abolish slavery everywhere, forever.

Sound epic? It is. And you are invited to join us.

Want to learn more about A21 and how you can join an A-Team? Come to Imagine Conference this Friday and Saturday!

 

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Imagine Spotlight: Anugra

Are you coming to Imagine Conference? Have you registered yet? The deadline is Wednesday!

The Story: Purchase and Empower

Anugra creates modern home goods that are environmentally sustainable, fair trade, and that contribute toward creating better opportunities for women in India. Pronounced uh•new•gruh, the name comes from the Hindi word “anugraha,” meaning blessing and grace.

It all started when Daisy, an Indian woman passionate about gender equality, saw a need for women empowerment in oppressive communities throughout her home country. A sewing center developed, providing women from these oppressive environments with a safe space and skill set that would otherwise be unfathomable. Fifteen years and over 3,500 trained women later, they were ready for the next step, wondering ‘How can we advance this to an even greater level of community impact?’

Anugra was born out of a desire to directly employ the top seamstresses and build a social enterprise. One that would pour back into the ministry while elevating sewing skills, literacy, fair wages, as well as creating safe spaces to work and grow together. Daisy’s nephew, Emmanuel Pothen, then living in Gloucester, Mass., took that desire and turned it into reality, bringing on Brooke Fryer as Anugra’s creative director.

Each product is handmade by women in Bhopal, India.

In the western world, purchase power is a new found glory. We all want to know where each of our products come from and how many hands have handled it. We have the privilege to choose: the choice to participate in transformation and impact. Quality over quantity. We have the opportunity to invest in more than our personal wardrobe or décor, but in lives across the globe, writing a new story for humans just like us, born into different circumstances.

Bindu printing table runners

Brooke Fryer (far right) with some of the women of Anugra

Website: anugra.co

Purchase: anugra.co/shop

Donate: anugra.co/donate

Follow: anugra.co on Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest

 

Want to learn more about Anugra and meet Brooke? Come to Imagine Conference this Friday and Saturday!

Want to shop these pieces in person and hear the incredible stories behind them? Join us for Discover Anugra on Monday, November 13, at 7 p.m. at North Way Christian Community, 12121 Perry Hwy., Wexford, PA 15090.

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‘We All Must Do Something’

This post is adapted from the original, which appeared on the Imagine Conference blog. Read to the end to see how you can be part of Imagine Conference this year!

Her name is Nicole, and I met her.

She traveled all the way from California to my house. I wish I could say I’d invited her. She walked right up to my front door and knocked. “I can’t let you in,” I said. “I have so much going on, you know, with work, my husband, kids. I’m a mom; you understand.”

There was no response. She knocked again. “I guess you didn’t hear me; I can’t let you in. I have to send these emails and plan dinner. The house is a mess. Sorry! Not a good time.” Nothing. Then came more knocking, soft and polite. “Wow, you again.” I was getting annoyed. “Honestly? I haven’t worked out yet today, or had my quiet time, or showered for that matter,” I said. “Can you please come back when I’ve met all their needs plus my own, wrapped up these projects, gotten myself organized, and my kids are in school all day?”

I opened the door a crack and walked away because I thought she’d left. Then she was standing in my living room. “My name is Nicole,” she said. She had long brown hair and was extremely attractive—she looked like she could have been about my age but was probably younger. Her look was on trend, and she had a welcoming smile. “Hi, Nicole,” I said, and I resumed working.

“When I was 18 years old, I was addicted to drugs and dancing at a club to make ends meet,” she began. “I met a guy, and he offered to help me get clean.”

That was the beginning of her nightmare, as that man would eventually enslave and traffic her across the United States, forcing her to pick up other women off the street as they went.

I stopped what I was doing and listened as Nicole shared details I couldn’t even repeat about her seven-year ordeal, which included constant abuse, threats of violence, and two forced abortions. As she talked, I could hear my two daughters shrieking with laughter from their attic playroom, and I broke down and wept.

Because her name is Nicole, and I met her. And my world was rocked forever.

 

A Call to Action

Human trafficking is modern-day slavery. There are more people in slavery today than at any other time in human history:

27 million in slaveryThe U.S. State Department last put the number of victims worldwide at an estimated 27 million, but according to its most recent report, it’s likely in the tens of millions.

Human trafficking is the fastest-growing criminal industry in the world, generating more than $150 billion USD every year, according to the International Labour Organization.

In 2016, an estimated 1 out of 6 endangered runaways reported to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children were likely child sex trafficking victims. Of those, 86% were in the care of social services or foster care when they ran away.

While there is no official estimate of the total number of human trafficking victims in the United States, it probably reaches into the hundreds of thousands.

And here’s the kicker:

Only 1 percent of human trafficking victims are ever rescued.

That these statistics are overwhelming and disheartening is an understatement.

Impossible might be the best way to describe the prospect of even slowing the momentum of this massive, powerful, runaway freight train of darkness—let alone stopping it in its tracks.

Except for one thing.

As Christians, we serve the God who created every single man, woman, and child enslaved in trafficking today—who sees, and knows, and loves each and every one of them. The God for whom nothing is impossible, and who wants to remind us that what is impossible with man is possible with God (Luke 18:27, Matthew 19:26). The God who might be calling you to action. Just like he called Christine.

 

We Can’t Do it All, But We Can All Do Something

In 2007, Christine Caine—today an internationally known teacher, evangelist, activist, author, and speaker—was walking through the airport in Thessaloniki, Greece, when she noticed that littering the walls were handmade posters showing the faces of girls and women who had disappeared. She wondered how there could be so many people missing at the same time, until someone told her they were all victims of human trafficking.

Caine was incredulous. “I thought ‘Human trafficking? That doesn’t happen, that’s ridiculous.’ Then I went online and did some research, and I was stunned.” [“Abolishing Sex Slavery by Helping One Girl at a Time”]

Or as she would later put it: “My. World. Was. Rocked. Forever. … Life as I knew it before seeing the missing posters was over.” [“A Dream Come True”]

A year later in 2008, she and her husband, Nick, founded The A21 Campaign, an anti-human trafficking organization dedicated to abolishing injustice in the 21st century. A21’s comprehensive approach includes raising awareness, preventing future trafficking, taking legal action, and providing rehabilitation services to survivors.

With a stated mission to abolish slavery everywhere forever, A21 has 12 offices in 11 countries—all focused on aspects of its three-pronged solution: Reach, Rescue, Restore.

 

 

REACH THE VULNERABLE AND DISRUPT THE DEMAND.
RESCUE VICTIMS AND SEEK JUSTICE AGAINST THEIR CAPTORS.
RESTORE SURVIVORS AND EQUIP THEM TO LIVE INDEPENDENTLY.

That first one, Reach. That’s where you and I come in: “Prevent slavery from ever happening by engaging people through events, student presentations, and education programs.”

Chances are you’re feeling pretty unqualified right about now, seeing as how you’re not ready to go off and found an entire antislavery organization. Chances are you’re thinking something along the lines of

I’m too busy.
It’s too big an issue.
I can’t do it all.

But we can all do something.

“Often, I think, because we think, ‘I can’t do it all,’ we end up being paralyzed. So we do nothing,” says Caine. “But if we understand we can’t do everything but we all must do something, and we all find the one thing that we can do, then we’ll find that together we will all make such a huge difference and we’ll be able to put a stop to this.”

 

Putting a Stop to This Part One: The Walk for Freedom

Remember my earlier encounter with Nicole? It was imagined, but her story isn’t, and it was what showed up in my living room that day. A few years later, on a warm May night at a church in suburban Pittsburgh, I was there as Nicole stood next to Christine Caine and shared her story live in front of an audience for the first time. You see, Nicole is alive, well, and free today because of A21. And now, she’s part of the fight.

So were we.

Walk for Freedom Pittsburgh Point State Park

Walk for Freedom Pittsburgh participants standing for freedom in front of the Point State Park fountain

On October 14, 2017, I joined tens of thousands of other 21st-century abolitionists in 400 cities and 50 countries around the world by participating in the Walk For Freedom, A21’s global fundraising and awareness campaign, in downtown Pittsburgh. A couple hundred of us dressed in black gathered outside Station Square and walked silently in single file to Point State Park. Along the way, we shared statistics and literature about human trafficking with curious passersby.

Check out the video recap:

 Missed the walk this year? Join us next year, and in the meantime …

 

Putting a Stop to This Part Two: Imagine Conference 2017

Join me at Imagine Conference 2017! The Imagine Conference, being held this year November 10-11, 2017, at North Way Christian Community equips, educates, and engages believers in the biblical call to care for the vulnerable, the lonely, the hurting and the at-risk people around them.

During the two-day event, participants will hear powerful stories and compelling speakers; attend breakout sessions; and meet other like-minded people interested in seeking justice and living out love in areas like family preservation, mentoring, ministry to refugees, adoption and foster care, missions, human trafficking, and embracing all life as made in the image of God.

Eugene Cho

Eugene Cho, Imagine Conference 2017 keynote speaker

On Friday, November 10, experience an incredible night of worship and storytelling and hear from keynote speaker Eugene Cho!

Learn directly from those who are on the front lines in the fight against human trafficking, and find out how to support and partner with local and national organizations like A21.

Together, as followers of Jesus, we can do something. Together, we can answer His call to live out love.

 

 

 

“It is absolutely clear that God has called you to a free life… Use your freedom to serve one another in love; that’s how freedom grows. For everything we know about God’s Word is summed up in a single sentence: Love others as you love yourself. That’s an act of true freedom.” Galatians 5:14

 

Register NOW for Imagine Conference, and while you’re there, stop by the A21 and Dressember table and say hi!